New Editorial Series: Style on a Budget!

Friends, I'm so excited! I’ve been wanting to write more fashion editorial and after pondering and consulting with Kris-Ann, today I'm launching a new editorial series called Style on a Budget. Why? Because while I do believe in investing in key pieces, there are definitely ways to amplify and improve your wardrobe without breaking the bank. I also share the frustration of many women when I see “bargain” fashion editorial that is far from affordable.

So, my goals for this series are multifaceted! First, I want to help you track down great pieces for less. Second, I want to help you figure out how to make the most of what you have. And third, I want to share clever solutions and inspiration. Every now and then I also will likely address pieces worth investing in -- investment pieces are, in fact, part of budgeting -- but largely, my approach will be to help you look awesome at reasonable expense. If you’ve got particular fashion quandaries you’d like me to address, send me an email at editor@bostonmamas.com!

First feature in the series: why necklaces are the easiest wardrobe amp-up ever + 10 gorgeous necklaces under $50

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16 Fun Places to Sled in the Boston Area

Today, Katy shares inspiration to get out and sled:

The string of recent storms inspired us to shake the cobwebs off of our snow tubes and toboggans for some great sledding. Below includes some of my favorite sledding spots in my old neighborhood around Watertown as well as other recommendations from the Boston Mamas community. Share your favorite sledding spots in the comments below!

1. Robbins Farm Park (Arlington) is a classic, with a sweeping view of Boston and a long, steep hill for great big kid thrills.

2. The Arlington Boys & Girls Club (Arlington) offers a short, steep incline with plenty of spin out room on the field. 

3. Grove Street (Belmont) at the intersection of Grove Street and Huron Avenue offers a more gentle hill, close to a playground.

4. Boston Common (Boston) is right at the heart of things, including close proximity to snacks and hot beverages (see these features on Beacon Hill and Back Bay local gems for some options)!

5. Larz Anderson Park (Brookline) is a favorite, with huge hills that are awesome to sled down and challenging to climb back up. 

6. David Nunes Park (Cambridge) is a smaller -- but still fun -- hill for little ones.

7. Kingsley Park Hill (Cambridge) at Fresh Pond received repeat recommendations.

8. Danehy Park (Cambridge) is one of Cambridge's favorite sledding spots.

9. Williams Hill (Harvard) is a bit further afield and highly recommended.

10. Sugar Bowl (Jamaica Plain) at Riverway @ Perkins Street is a great spot for serious sledders.

11. Tower Hill (Medford) is a popular spot for Medford residents.

12. Tufts University (Medford) is another favorite in Medford.

13. Needham High School (Needham) offers a fun hill that runs down from the school to the football field.

14. Lowell School (Watertown), at the intersection of Orchard Street and George Street, is one of my old favorites.

15. Casey Playground (Watertown) on Watertown Street is a great spot with a big landing area.

16. Mullan Field (Winchester) across from Wright Locke Farm offers a steep and exciting incline. Added bonus: adjacent parking lot.

*ADDITIONAL PICKS: Also, editor Christine Koh just learned about this Boston Magazine feature on sledding spots in Boston; it includes some of the picks shared here, and several others in Roslindale, Jamaica Plain, Southie, and more.

Have fun sledding! And don't forget supplies for the backpack:

  • Lip balm
  • Sunglasses
  • Extra mittens
  • Snack and drink
  • Towels to keep the car seats dry on the way home
  • Camera

Image credits: Christine Koh

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    8 Sources for Valentine's Day Inspiration

    Given that it's early February and many of us are wrestling with the "what do we do now?" question as the snow days stack up (if the 10-day forecast is correct, we may have more forthcoming...SORRY!), I thought it would be a perfect time to roundup some ideas for Valentine's Day. It turns out there are some really great ideas swimming around in the archives; enjoy these free printables, crafts, treats, and relationship lessons.

    1. The core of everything is relationships! These 4 simple love lessons are a really good place to start.

    2. Isn't it amazing that the world is filled with so many beautiful free printables? I used #1 and #5 last year and will return to these 14 awesome free Valentine's Day printables for the girls!

    3. If you have a kid who loves to focus on projects, these rosebud Valentine's are simply adorable (sorry, old photo skills don't do it justice!).

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    4. Here's a fun roundup of 10 lovely Valentine's Day craft and treat ideas.

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    5. Here are 3 easy Valentine's Day treats you can make with kids; I think I'm going to make the cake this year. YUM. CAKE.

    6. If you want to create a treat that's a little fancier, try these Valentine's fudge cakes. YUM.

    7. We keep things simple and don't really do Valentine's gifting in our house, but here's a cute idea for Valentine's Day color themed card kits -- you may be able to assemble this from craft scraps in your home (what's old is new!).

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    8. And here's an article I wrote a while back on creative ideas for celebrating Valentine's Day.

    Weekly Blueprint

    Hi everyone, happy Sunday -- I hope you're having a great weekend! February has started beautifully, with a 5-mile race and a great brunch with friends, and we're looking forward to some Super Bowl festivities too! But before we head out for football fun, I'm dropping the Weekly Blueprint early since school has already been cancelled for us tomorrow so the morning will be rather, uh, variable. Stay safe out there tomorrow!

    February 2: It’s Groundhog Day. What will the groundhog’s shadow say? (Lincoln)

    February 2: Celebrate Groundhog Day with Mish Michaels. (Wellesley)

    February 3: ASD-friendly afternoon at The Discovery Museums. (Acton)

    February 4: Happy Tu B’Shevat! Happy New Year for the trees. (Acton)

    February 4: Explore deCordova for FREE. (Lincoln)

    February 4: Fill your day with art and play and extraordinary snowflakes. (Lincoln)

    February 4: Preschool animal tracks storytime. (Waltham)

    February 4: Have tea with Mary Poppins. (Wenham)

    February 5: Bring your budding scientist to Build! (Worcester)

    February 6: Music and movement with Miss Bernadette. (Acton)

    February 6: FREE admission to The Discovery Museums. (Acton)

    February 6: What’s better than Lollipops for Breakfast? (Brookline)

    February 6: Special night at the museum for families with Autism. (Easton)

    February 6: What’s better than stew and brew on a cold winter’s night? (Lincoln)

    Image credit: Arnold Arboretum

    Best of January 2015

    Happy last day of January everyone! I will admit that this month has been extremely challenging for me on a number of levels (and strangely, I've heard the same from others) so I'm totally ready to put this month to rest! Please be awesome February, OK? And to kick that off, would you like to join me for a little fun with this daily photo challenge in February? I've always wanted to do a daily photo challenge and am diving in tomorrow! Come play!

    Books:

    Consumer Issues:

    Fitness:

    Food:

    Parenting:

    Travel:

    Image credit: warm lemon pudding cake via Pinterest

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    Friday Find: Just Add Cooking

    I love cooking, but these days especially I’ve been hampered by lack of time and inspiration. So when local “meal kit” service Just Add Cooking asked whether I’d like to test their service for editorial consideration, I was -- to say the least -- enthusiastic! And I've been really happy with the service for a number of reasons -- so much so that I booked and enjoyed another delivery last week! Allow me to enumerate the reasons (12 of them).

    Quick note to start: roughly speaking, Just Add Cooking serves the 495 belt inwards; pop your zip code into their service area finder to check if they deliver to your town! Now, on to why I think you should give it a try -- and if you'd like, use code REFGVJE to get $20 off your first order.

    1. Pricing. The price is very competitive with -- and in some cases less expensive than -- other meal kit services. Pricing for 3 meals for a family of 4 = $109 (4 meals = $129, 5 meals = $139). You can also opt for 2 servings per meal.

    2. Flexible commitment. I will admit, I'm a commitment phobe about some things. I don’t like getting locked in to contracts! I like that you can opt in or out of meals each week. You need to decide and select meals by Wednesday to get the Sunday delivery; if you don’t want service that week, just select to skip.

    3. Ordering. The layout of the site makes it easy to look at recipes, see how much time each meal requires for prep, make selections, or skip a week altogether. Yay for easy web interface!

    4. Shipment arrival. Just Add Cooking texts you when your package has been dropped; which was handy when we got our first shipment since we were home but just cruising around in our jammies. Who knows when we otherwise would have stepped outside!

    5. Packaging. Meal kits include pre-measured ingredients. The shopping and measurement has been done for you; all you need to do (in some cases) is chop and cook.

    6. Local love. I love that Just Add Cooking sources local! For example, our shipments have included salmon from Captain Marden’s, Greek yogurt from Green Mountain Creamery in VT, bread from Nashoba Brook Bakery in Concord, cream from Mapleline Farms in Hadley, MA, and steak from Creekstone Farms.

    7. Clear instructions. Recipe instructions are clear and in your welcome letter, they provide a recommended cooking order for your dishes.

    8. Taste. Overall, the dishes have been tasty! The salmon toast with horseradish and slaw was excellent and easy and the chicken gruyere was delicious and decidedly fancy feeling. The beef stir fry was more of a B+ in my book, but that may be because I’m used to stronger Asian flavors (being Asian and all…). This week we enjoyed the tarragon crusted salmon and Shepard's pie and I'll make the last meal this evening when I return from D.C.

    9. Leftovers. All of our meals have rendered leftovers. Thumbs up for leftovers!

    10. Rut busting capacity. It has been SO AWESOME to bust out of our food rut with this service. Not only in the immediate sense, of having the meal prepped for us, but also in the longer term sense of being reminded to use different ingredients and preparation methods.

    11. Engages little helpers. I’ll have to see if this effect lasts, but there is something about the neatly packaged box with all of the adorably packaged items that makes Violet want to help prepare meals. Longtime readers know that I’m a huge fan of getting kids in the kitchen!

    12. More time for fun. One clear benefit of paying for a meal kit service is that it frees up TIME. So precious, right? I love spending less time attempting to meal plan and shop and more time playing with my family.

    I think my only critical recommendation would be to select your meals with balance in mind. So, for example, the first week, 2 of our 3 meals came with cabbage as a side. Cabbage and potatoes seem to be a common side (makes sense, given that they are sturdy vegetables) but we tend to want more green vegetables so I need to keep an eye out for that.

    In short, this is an awesome solution! We’re thinking we’ll use it 1-2 times a month, depending on our schedules and bandwidth (or lack thereof!). If you’re interested in trying Just Add Cooking and want to get $20 off your first order, you can use my referral code REFGVJE when you sign up. Happy cooking!

    Disclosure: Just Add Cooking provided me with 3 complimentary meals to try out; all opinions expressed here are, of course, my own. And I loved the service so much I laid down my credit card and ordered a box last week and can't wait to order another!

    Image credits: logo by Just Add Cooking; photos by Christine Koh

    Weekend Roundup

    Happy Friday everyone and greetings from Washington, D.C. I'm here for a short work visit and per usual, wish I had more time to wander around the city and meet up with people. But alas, another time and I'm off to meetings and hope you have a wonderful weekend. Enjoy this roundup of 17 events, lovingly curated for your consideration! Also, please take a moment to check out this post on lice (I'm on a mission to put the stigma to rest!).

    1. Inspire your heart with art. (Acton)

    2. Tanglewood Marionettes presents Sleeping Beauty. (Arlington)

    3. Magic & Beyond One-Man Illusion Show. (Arlington)

    4. Create a winter wonderland in a jar. (Boston)

    5. Sing-along with Matt Heaton. (Boston)

    6. Children’s performance of Stuart Little - The Musical. (Boston)

    7. 6th Annual ICA International Children’s Film Festival. (Boston)

    8. International phenomenon Gustafer Yellowgold. (Brookline)

    9. The world premier of Lollipops for Breakfast. (Brookline)

    10. The Big Family Quiz Thing live game show spectacular. (Cambridge)

    11. Bug out with Karen K and the Jitterbugs. (Cambridge)

    12. Get out and stretch your legs on a long walk before the big game. (Dartmouth)

    13. The perfect weekend for a WinterFest. (Harvard)

    14. Thoreau’s Desk (requires some assembly); a musical composition inspired in part by the "Sounds" chapter in Walden. (Lincoln)

    15. Fun-filled day celebrating the cultures of South America. (Somerville)

    16. An early Groundhog Day extravaganza. (Topsfield)

    17. STEM Discovery Day at the Ecotarium. (Worcester)

    Image Credit: Mass Audubon Society

    7 Important Things to Do When You Find That Your Kids Have Lice

    Envision that you’ve been running around like a crazy person, tackling work, caregiving, and parenting demands. Your husband heads out of town for the weekend and you are sitting down by yourself for the first time (late in the day, around 3:30pm), excited to enjoy a cup of coffee while catching up on email. And then about two seconds after your rump hits the chair, you get a call from preschool to notify you that your kid has lice.

    UGH! This happened to me last Friday and as I scurried into go-mode and benefited from the cool, calm, and collected response of various people -- and the nervous OMG YOU ARE DISEASE RIDDEN energy of others -- I realized that there is way more to dealing with lice than nit picking (as important as that task is). My friends at Alpha Mom have a great article on lice facts and fiction and the CDC FAQ on lice is very helpful (included are pictures of the three forms of lice -- nit, nymph, adult -- so you know what to look for), but today I wanted to focus on 7 important things to do when you discover lice, most of which go beyond actual treatment advice (of which there is plenty).

    1. Remain calm. I know it’s hard not to freak out about lice, but freaking out will not help you. Lice happens. It can happen to anyone and is a result of head to head contact (read: snuggly kids are more susceptible). I’m a little shocked that we made it through 10 years of parenting (including day care from babyhood) before dealing with lice!

    2. Let go of the stigma. Clearly, people have a thing about bugs and it has led to major stigma when it comes to lice. But being ashamed about it isn’t going to help it go away, and in fact, may perpetuate the problem (see below).

    3. Go public. Related to #2, after discussing with Laurel, I made an explicit decision to be public about the lice on social channels, both as a means to debunk stigma and also as a first pass, blanket way to let my school parent friends know. I received plenty of public support, and also private messages from parents who said that my sharing inspired them to check their kids and, well, one of them also found lice and was commencing treatment. So, think of your public statement as a form of lice control!

    4. Do direct follow up. I also directly followed up with the parents of anyone my kids had had playdates with recently. Luckily, no lice findings, but I felt better knowing that the kids were checked over to control spread.

    5. Know your limits. I decided to tackle the lice myself, mostly because it would have cost a TON of money to get Laurel, Violet, and my long hair treated. Also, I knew I had the patience and meticulous nature to tackle it. However, if you feel this process will drive you insane and you have the financial resources, get professional help! Nitwits is a well-known option ($130/hour) and friends also have recommended the AirAllé heat treatment ($200/treatment) and Lice Aunties.

    6. If you’re treating at home, keep it simple. For treatment recommendations (both for the person and home), see the CDC guide for head lice treatment. There are lots of product options out there (I regret buying the kit that came with gel and spray, both of which are not useful) but at the end of the day, the most important tools are a lice comb, bright light (a headlamp has been so, so helpful!), and your own fingers and perseverance. For the final stretch, we also started using a hairdryer and Jon picked up some non-toxic egg killing spray at Walgreen's (verdict is still out on whether this is useful). We have been checking repeatedly through the day and found that after the first few days, the comb wasn’t catching everything (at a point where we were just finding a handful at each check). So we have going through the hair in tiny sections, pulling off remaining nits by hand. They really stick to the hair so we have needed to slide them off the hair with our fingernail.

    7. Take care of yourself. At the end of the day, lice is a major pain in the rump. The first day I was physically exhausted from poring over my kids’ heads for so many hours. It’s important to take care of yourself; I did that in the form of a colossal brunch after day 2 (where we had removed almost everything). I also plan on going on a J. Crew bender, given that I saved so much money on nit picking services! :-)

    Have you dealt with lice? Was it embarrassing or difficult to communicate with other parents about it? I'd love to hear your stories in the comments below.

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    I Will Be Brave

    Respite.

    I stepped outside tonight to feel the wind upon my feet. Today, January 28, it was 73 degrees in Kansas City. Winter will return in a few days, with cold and snow, but tonight, tonight! I heard a barn owl amidst the wind rustling through the branches in my backyard. Something small and furry lives under my deck. I heard it turning in its bed.

    I remember sitting on my best friend's graduate school balcony in February 1997. It was a miraculous 70 degrees. I was living in Chicago at the time. I thought Kansas City must surely be a magic place, so close to my parents but yet so mysteriously warm.

    I moved here in 1998.

    I'm not sure I could live somewhere completely without seasons. I'm not sure I could appreciate the wonder of a 70-degree January day if my skin weren't acclimated to zero degrees.

    Everywhere I went today, I saw people baring winter skin in shorts: jogging, popping into the grocery store, playing in yards. We all smiled at each other, because we know what is coming. That this is a respite from a normal Midwestern January. We got a gift we weren't supposed to have.

    Fifteen minutes ago, I cradled my daughter's head in my arms as she drifted off to sleep.

    "Never leave," she said.

    "No," I said. I didn't promise, because I can't promise. The only thing assured of all of us is that we will eventually leave.

    "Not yet," I thought, instead, to myself.

    I thought about the pictures I saw online recently of children climbing across broken bridges and up precarious ladders to get to school. I thought about the conversation I had with the woman who cuts my hair about how when I was a girl they didn't even have seat belts in the back of cars, let alone five-point harnesses and rules about snowsuits and car seats. And yet, even then, parents were promising their children they would never leave.

    That we persist, that we survive, is a gift of chance and in my mind, God.

    As I felt my daughter's head grow heavier, I said thank you.

    As I felt the wind on my feet to the background of the owl's rough song, I said thank you.

    Heart beats fast, colors and promises.

    How to be brave
    How can I love when I'm afraid
    To fall
    But watching you stand alone
    All of my doubt
    Suddenly goes away somehow.

    "Never leave," she said.

    And from the scary parts of life, from the boring parts, from the hard parts ...

    being her mother is a reprieve. She is a 70-degree January day. She is my heart on the outside of my body.

    She is my life's work.