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#WhatDoITellMySon is something I've never had to ask myself, and I'm sorry
4 hours ago
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I have no idea what it's like to raise a black son in America — this is what I can offer
Dear James, I can't and won't pretend to understand what it's like to raise a black son ever, let alone in our current 2015.
I'm not sure I can tell you what to tell your son. You're a strong, capable father, and I have faith you will guide him in the best way possible.
Here's what I know: I was once a white person raised almost solely among white people. This became problematic because even though my family and friends didn't talk about other races, their body language suggested that the other was different — perhaps to be feared. Since I grew up in a town of 5,000 people who were 99 percent white, I didn't have to think about race much until I went out into the world.
It might be important to say that many, many white people can live their whole lives without interacting with anyone but white people. There are enough pockets of the country that are mostly white for this to be true.
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