Friday Find: Where Is the Cake?
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Today's Friday Find is perfect for book lovers! When I first opened T. T. Khing's Where Is the Cake? (a gift to Violet from my awesome brother-in-law) I was initially puzzled as there was nothing for me to read. But this look-and-find book has since proven incredibly captivating for kids and adults alike. The pages include numerous animal plot lines; even after a dozen "reads" I found myself discovering new story elements. We love this book and I'll be ordering Khing's follow up Where Is the Cake Now? soon!

Image credits: covers via Amazon

Weekend Roundup
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Happy Friday everyone, whoo boy I'm excited for the weekend, are you? Among other things, I'm planning on knocking off Laurel and Violet's school Valentines with these free printables (yay!) and probably making some early Valentine's Day treats (yum!). If you're looking for something fun to do, peruse this roundup of 18 weekend events. And also, be sure to subscribe to be eligible for this awesome giveaway!

1. The magic of Rupayan Neogy. (Acton)

2. Monkeys making mischief. (Arlington) 

3. Watch Jenny juggle! (Arlington)

4. Free admission to this Lunar New Year celebration. (Boston)

5. A very special Chinese New Year celebration. (Boston)

6. Pack your bags and jet off to somewhere fabulous. (Boston)

7. Pinocchio and King Midas Family Concert. (Boston)

8. National Choreography Month Boston celebration. (Boston)

9. Chinese New Year Lion Dance parade. (Boston)

10. Do your part to help restore natural habitats. (Boston)

11. All about lobsters at the aquarium. (Boston)

12. Gustafer Yellowgold, a cross between Yellow Submarine and Dr. Suess. (Brookline)

13. All of your favorite Cleo stories and a Cleo craft. (Concord)

14. See children’s work on display at this family arts day. (Easton)

15. The return of the majestic bald eagles. (Newburyport)

16. This activity is icky, creepy, and just plain gross. (Norfolk)

17. This gives the ice hotel a whole new meaning. (Royalston)

18. Fun for the whole family at this winter festival. (Weston)

Image credit: Christine Koh

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3 Easy Valentine's Day Treats
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Today, Lindsey shares 3 easy Valentine's Day treats to make with your kids (also, be sure to check out these awesome free Valentine's Day printables!):

I used to hate Valentine's Day, for all of its forced romance. But my children have made me love it: their enthusiasm for decorating the house, for hand-made Valentine cards, and for sweets is utterly contagious.

It's that last category that they probably love most. What kid doesn't!? Red and pink is my favorite color combination, so I make sure that features on almost all baked goods. Here are three (super easy!) favorites that Grace, Whit, and I love; they all make for fun projects for the kids:

1. Chocolate-dipped pretzel sticks. Melt milk or white chocolate over a double boiler (put one pot inside a larger one with some water in it) to gently melt the chocolate. Stir frequently. When the chocolate is melted, dip pretzel sticks one at a time. I use a spoon to bring the chocolate up the pretzel until about 2/3 is covered. Twirl the pretzel to cover all around and place pretzel on a parchment paper covered baking sheet. Shake sprinkles over the still-soft chocolate. Put them somewhere cool (fridge works, but so does a basement) to harden. These look cute standing up in a cup or glass.

2. Pink rice krispie treats. In a large saucepan melt 3 tablespoons of butter and then add 4 cups of mini-marshmallows. Stir constantly until the marshmallow becomes liquid. Add drops of red food coloring to your desired level of pink or red and stir to blend. Add 6 cups of rice krispies and mix together until they are all coated and sticky. Press into a 13 x 9 pan (I spray my hands with canola oil) and let cool. Sometimes, I cut these out with a heart cookie cutter.

3. Heart cake for breakfast. It's now one of my traditions to present Grace and Whit with cake for breakfast on Valentine's Day. I know it's not nutritious but the sheer joy on their face is worth it; I love it and imagine they will remember those mornings for a long time.

I use yellow boxed cake mix, but I always doctor it a bit, using 4 eggs instead of the 2 the box calls for and substituting milk for water and melted butter for oil. It tastes delicious! You don't need a special pan to make this cake.  Make one square (8x8) and one round (8x8) cake (the box makes two layers so it's the perfect amount). Once the cakes are baked and cooled, cut the circle into halves. Turn the square so that one corner points down, towards you. One half of each circle goes on each of the top two sides of the square. Voila, a heart! Frost accordingly!

Image credits: Lindsey Mead

Holidays, Valentine's DayComment
#BIRTHDAYFAIL
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Not totally. Not really. Because today, I made it to forty. And my daughter made me toast on the red plate and sang to me. And my friends called and texted and joked and welcomed me to this decade of my life. And my sister and my best friend sang to me on the phone. And even though Beloved is out of town, I opened my presents via Facetime.

Now that I've gotten that out of the way.

1) No matter how much you want to embrace 40, it's 40. It's like 30's older sister. These birthdays that end in zeroes are tough.

2) Polar vortex

3) School has been cancelled all week, see: polar vortex. It's also cancelled tomorrow because we got a foot of snow in a blizzard yesterday and the salt is apparently not activating because blah blah SCIENCE so all the roads still suck even though they've been treated and plowed.

4) Both my child and my cat have been cooped up in this house since the Super Bowl and are ready to kill each other.

5) My daughter keeps making cookies. We have a million cookies. She keeps making more. And leaving the dishes.

6) The blizzard required a total of three hours over two days of snowblowing, because: polar vortex.

7) My husband is traveling for six weeks solid Monday-Thursday. This was week one.

8) I kind of hurt my back snowblowing. I think it's okay, but I'm not completely sure, because I'm old now.

So my sister called me as I was skating around town buying prescription cat food and hand warmers and cat toys and champagne in tiny little bottles to reward myself for making it through this week of frigid hell. I tried to tell her paragraph one, about how I know I should be grateful and in a better mood and all because all my limbs are attached and at least I work from home, and she was all: You know what? I think it's already too late. BIRTHDAYFAIL. 

And then for the first time today, I sort of felt better for real. 

12 Ways to Get Kids to Brush Their Teeth
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Today, Judy shares 12 tips for encouraging healthy dental habits in kids (perfectly timed for National Children’s Dental Health month!):

Pediatric dentists recommend cleaning your children’s teeth as soon as the first baby teeth emerge. According to the CDC, nearly 20% of children 2 and 5 years old already have at least one untreated cavity. Yikes.

Our 2-year-old protested tooth brushing daily until we took him to a pediatric dentist, who shared some useful tips with us. The following is a list of the best tips that we’ve gathered from veteran moms, pediatric dentists, and our own trial and error:

1. Model healthy habits. Kids love to mimic! Let your children watch you brushing your teeth. Show enthusiasm, model good technique, and tell them what you're doing. They’ll want to do it simply because you’re doing it.

2. Leverage beloved characters. Buying special toothbrushes with beloved characters on them (such as Thomas or Dora) is a great way to get kids excited about brushing.

3. Offer choices. We keep a variety of toothbrushes on hand and let our son choose which one he wants to use each morning and night. It allows him to feel like he has a say in what goes on. Instead of yes/no, the choice is between a standard, electric, or finger brush.

4. Use a reward chart. A reward chart can be a helpful way to provide positive reinforcement and keep kids interested in brushing every morning and night. We’ve found some adorable dental-themed stickers and prizes online.

5. Read tooth books. Reading books about healthy dental habits and brushing can be an effective way to introduce these concepts. We read Dr. Seuss’ The Tooth Book almost every night.

6. Use distraction. Distract your child by counting to 20 while brushing or putting on a short video. (Note: this isn't ideal if, like me, you’re trying to limit screen time, but it works.)

7. Engage in silly talk. My son loves it when we get silly and tell him about all the things we’re cleaning out of his teeth while we’re brushing. List all the items they ate that day (spaghetti and meatballs) and throw in a few silly things (elephant ears!), too, for extra giggles.

8. Start with the front first. Begin with the front teeth and gradually move toward the back. Children often protest brushing their back teeth for fear of gagging or choking. Be especially gentle with the molars and take care not to go too far back. One bad experience can set you back for weeks…trust me!

9. Beware of the biter. If your child, like mine, has a tendency to bite down on the brush, our pediatric dentist recommends gently sticking one (clean) finger in the corner of his mouth to allow better access to all teeth.

10. Help them own it. After I’m confident that I’ve given my son’s teeth a thorough cleanse, I hand the brush over to him and let him have at it. It gives him a feeling of independence and control and an opportunity to practice his technique (and you ultimately want them to learn to do it on their own!). 

11. Switch roles. After I finish brushing his, I often let my toddler “brush” my teeth, too. Prepare yourself for the occasional gum jab. It’ll be worth it when he doesn’t have cavities someday.

12. Rinse it out. If all else fails, teach your child to swish with water* to wash away food particles. It’s better than nothing!

*Editor's Note: Another option is to have the kids swish with children's flouride for some extra cleaning oomph. I use Tom's of Maine anticavity flouride rinse -- both for the girls and also for myself because neon colored flouride seems like a terrible idea to me! I'm also loving these rainbow toothbrushes!

Image credits: all images via Amazon per included links above.

Subscriber Perk Alert: Dansko Sneakers!
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14 Awesome Free Valentine's Day Printables
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I'm a designer and DIY enthusiast, but I also believe in efficiency. And when it comes to Valentine's Day cards (and producing about 40 of them for Laurel and Vi's classmates and teachers...sometimes the girls have the steam to make them and sometimes not), there are so many great printables out there that I see no need to create work for myself! Here are 14 (actually, more than 14) awesome FREE Valentine's Day printables. Your biggest challenge will be deciding which ones to blast through your printer. WIN.

1. Pick from any or all of 4 adorable woodland creatures.

2. Pop this super hero printable into a frame, or cut up the icons for individual cards.

3. I heart these modern blue and red cards.

4. Your kids can practice the alphabet with this cute printable.

5. Extreme couponing of the affectionate variety.

6. For those (like Laurel) who are obsessed with mustaches.

7. Six simple and sweet printable cards.

8. A treats printable for my fellow typography nerds.

9. We go together like pie and whipped cream (and several other pairings that are making me hungry).

10. Eight adorable retro printable cards.

11. DYING over these 7 Star Wars cards!

12. A great printable for the bookworms.

13. Rainbow loom bracelet tags = brilliant.

14. Adorable paper airplane printables.

Image credits: all images via sourced links above.

8 Black History Month Learning Resources
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In honor of Black History Month I wanted to share some resources to help inspire conversations and learning with your kids. Below is a roundup of books, printables, crafts, and interactive tools; if you've come across other great resources, I'd love to hear about them in the comments! Also, my friend Kelly Wickham, an incredibly smart writer and educator, will be be posting regularly about Black History Month; check her first post on Langston Hughes.

1. An interactive Underground Railroad journey.

2. Rising with Rosa Parks app.

3. MLK poem and timeline.

4. Black History Month worksheets.

5. Black History Month coloring pages.

6. Take a virtual heritage tour.

7. Make a peace wreath.

8. I posted last month about these 4 civil rights movement books for kids. And here are some other highly rated books for kids:

Image credits: all images via linked sources above

    Weekly Blueprint
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    Happy Monday everyone, and welcome to the first full week of February! Are you getting excited about the Olympics? Not surprisingly, particularly after covering the US Figure Skating Championships (and the epic-ness that was meeting Michelle Kwan) I'm fired up for figure skating. But before we get there, enjoy this roundup of events via the Weekly Blueprint:

    February 3: Skin on my Chin: diversity workshop for children. (Charlestown)

    February 3: Celebrate black history month with music. (Hyde Park)

    February 3: Explore winter on the farm. (Lincoln)

    February 4: ASD-friendly afternoon to explore the Discovery Museums. (Acton)

    February 5: It’s time to join the junior bird club. (South Dartmouth)

    February 7: Winter Olympics opening ceremony right here in MA. (Acton)

    February 7:  Uh oh. The weather forecast is looking Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs. (Cambridge)

    February 7: Late night at the museum. (Easton)

    February 7: Afternoon chores and s’mores...what a reward for hard work! (Lincoln)

    February 7: National Choreography Month Boston celebration (Boston)

    February 7: Pack your bags and jet off to somewhere fabulous. (Boston)

    Image credit: Olympics cupcakes via Pinterest

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