Saving One Cat
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"Her face looks like cookie dough," she said, holding her fingers out to the cat who had her own room in the shelter. "If she were mine, I'd name her Cookie Dough."

I'd already checked and found she was declawed. I was hopeful. The little angel hadn't gravitated toward any cat in three shelters and five hours since Bella passed away.  "This could be your cat," I said.

And so we adopted Petunia Cookie Dough, who came to live with us. She now sleeps at our feet in our bed, sits with us while we read books at night to the little angel, sprawls on the kitchen floor while we eat, never more than five feet away from the closest family member.

She is a lap cat. A lover. A sweetheart. And if we hadn't adopted her, she would be dead by now.

We adopted her from a kill shelter when she had been there for nine months. That was in July-ish. She would've been dead by now if we hadn't brought her home.

She is one of the sweetest cats I have ever known.

And sometimes, when I look at her late at night, I realize that she knows that we saved her.

She knows she is home.

Bum Boosa Bamboo Baby Products
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bumboosa.jpgIf you’re looking for ways to improve the eco-friendliness of your diapering routine, consider the bamboo baby wipes and diaper rash ointment by locally operated Bum Boosa. Today, Jules and Evadne share a joint review of these products. Read on for their reviews, as well as to learn how to be one of three winners to receive a Bum Boosa gift basket (entry closes at midnight, October 23):

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From Jules:

Bum Boosa natural baby wipes are terrific for eco-minded parents; they're 100% biodegradable, flushable, and are made from bamboo, a sustainable natural resource. The wipes are super soft; softer than the brand name wipes I was using prior to Bum Boosa. And I love the silky texture of the diaper rash ointment, which is composed of finely ground bamboo powder, zinc oxide, vitamin E (oil that we use in our home for its healing properties), and other essential oils. The cream is really thick and I have been using it more as a protective agent on my babies. (Admittedly, I also recently used a little bit as hand cream and it worked great!)

In addition to providing environmentally conscious products, Bum Boosa plants a tree for every wipes package purchase. We should all strive to do our part so well!”

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From Evadne:

“Although I have noticed the rise in bamboo products on the market (everything from sunglasses to furniture to kitchen utensils), I must confess that I never knew what the big deal was. Then I tried Bum Boosa baby wipes.

Bum Boosa baby wipes are made with 100% bamboo pulp, organic aloe vera, and pure essential oils of lavender and sweet orange. The pleasant-smelling oils provide antiseptic and anti-inflammatory benefits, and the bamboo fibers make the wipes especially soft and moist (though I found them a tad on the thin side and also wish they were sized bigger). I’m impressed by how gentle these wipes are on my little ones' bottoms and how gentle they are on the earth.

Not only are Bum Boosa baby wipes biodegradeable (read: flushable!) but, because they use bamboo instead of the industry standard of tree pulp, cotton, or synthetic material, they save trees and water in their production. In fact, bamboo seems uniquely designed for production and harvesting. The plant is regenerative (doesn't need to be replanted), sustainable (grows at least a yard a day), has naturally occurring anti-microbial properties (so crops don't need fertilizer, chemicals, insecticides, or fungicides), and can flourish on rainwater alone (no irrigation required). Bamboo even has antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties that inspired Bum Boosa to launch their latest product - a diaper rash ointment made with bamboo powder (love the fine texture and the smell)!

Last but not least, with each purchase of bamboo wipes, Bum Boosa ensures that a tree is planted through its partnership with Trees for the Future. Isn't it heartening to know that you can still do some good for the environment, even if you have two little ones in diapers (like me)? I guess that is a pretty big deal.”

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THIS CONTEST IS NOW CLOSED
Congrats to winners Felicia, Amanda, & Sierra!
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Now, want to be one of three winners to receive a Bum Boosa gift basket? Here's how:

  • Visit the Bum Boosa store locator page, then email contests@bostonmamas.com (with ‘Bum Boosa’ in the subject), and name a store where you can purchase Bum Boosa products (other than their online shop).

  • One entry permitted per person; US residents welcome to enter.

  • Entry period closes at midnight EST, Friday, October 24, 2009.

    *Three lucky winners (drawn via Random.org) will receive a Bum Boosa gift basket including three packages of 80 count wipes, one 2 oz container of diaper rash ointment, and one 10 ml bottle of pure grade lavender essential oil ($39.99 value each).

  • Beware of Bratzillas
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    npr.gifThis week I had the pleasure chatting with NPR Tell Me More host Michel Martin, Tell Me More regular parenting contributors Jolene Ivey and Dannette Tucker, and Friend or Foe advice columnist Lucinda Rosenfeld about the complicated issue of what to do when your friend’s kids act like bratzillas. To get to the interview, click here then select the Beware of Bratzillas title to access the audiocast. Enjoy!

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    Okay, So It Was Spelled Backwards
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    You guys have totally got me about the Mominatrix t-shirt thing. I need to just suck it up and get Beloved to take the picture. I felt a little silly asking him to do it, I admit. Not because he doesn't like the shirt or doesn't like the site, but because I'm asking him to take a picture of me attempting to look halfway decent in a t-shirt on a Sunday afternoon. Sometimes I wonder what my family thinks of how into my blogerific life I actually am.

    Actually, I am afraid to ask. I'm pretty sure they think I am a huge nerd, possibly trending to a narcissistic nerd. I mean, seriously? If you showed blog posts to someone in 1974, they'd be all WTFDOYOUTHINKYOUAREDOINGFOOL? Why do you have a photo of only your eyeballs on a computer? Or a cartoon version of yourself? WTFWTFWTF????????

    The writing never bothers me. Promoting the writing never bothers me. Trying to take a decent photo of myself bothers me, because I either look unnaturally posed or matronly. That's why I have changed my profile picture on this blog twice since it became a photo of me and not of the little angel (back in the anonymous days of 2004 and 2005). The first one was taken by my professional photographer friend and the second was a desperate camera-phone attempt to make sure people knew I was me at BlogHer and not a bobbed, glasses-wearing, two-years-younger version of myself.

    So. There you have it. I am a big wienie when it comes to having my photograph taken unless I trust the photographer has editing skillz. Which I totally do not.

    But I will work on getting that t-shirt thing spelled forward. I can't believe I was so worried about getting the photo done I didn't even think about the laws of science. Kids? Are you listening?

    I Heart Marathon Sports
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    marathon-sports.gifPoor customer service is perplexing, frustrating, and amazingly rampant in the retail industry, so I’m always thrilled to discover a store – such as Marathon Sports – that does it right. In need of a new pair of running shoes in advance of the Gobble, Gobble, Gobble run, I visited Marathon Sports with Laurel on Sunday. I was approached immediately (in a good way) by a friendly staffer, and after observing my feet and walking gait (in socks, pants rolled up) and asking about brand preferences, the staffer made easy work of the sea of sneaker options on the wall and pulled his two top recommendations, the second of which fit beautifully and felt great as I test trotted around the store.
    I have walked by the flagship Cambridge location countless times, but this was my first time visiting the store (they also have locations in Boston, Brookline, Melrose, Norwell, and Wellesley). Remarkably, Laurel and I were in and out of Marathon Sports in 10 minutes (a major bonus since it’s not always easy doing errands like this with kids in tow). I’m still amazed that in that short time, the staff was able to put their knowledge and experience to excellent use, while offering personal attention and support as I prepare for my first race.

    Yesterday, I hit the 30 minute run mark for the first time in my new sneakers. I have a feeling I'll be logging a lot more miles in these (and future) shoes from Marathon Sports.

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    At Least I Told Her About Copyright Law

    Scene: Walking back from the park. It was 75 amazing degrees in Kansas City today.

    The little angel is reclined in the only stroller we still own, a purple-flowered umbrella jobby. (The park is a mile away.) She has her legs crossed and is waving the water bottle around like a wand as she warms to her subject.

    Her: Mommy! I'm going to tell you a story now.

    Me: Okay.

    Her: This is the story of the three pigs.

    Me: (respectful pause)

    Her: The first pig was named <LITTLE ANGEL>. 

    Me: She sounds very nice.

    Her: Shhh! This pig built a house out of FEATHERS. Can you believe it?

    Me: That would be hard to do.

    Her: And then a wolf came along and blew the house over. Can you believe it?

    Me: That's too bad. Then what happened?

    Her: Then the SECOND PIG, whose name was AUNT STEPHI, came and built a house out of DIAMONDS.

    Me: (choking with laughter) That sounds right.

    Her: But the wolf came and blew over the diamonds. And Aunt Stephi ran away.

    Me: Excellent. Then what happened?

    Her: Then the last pig came, and her name was RITA. And she was the SMARTEST PIG OF ALL.

    Me: Of course she was!

    Her: And she built her house out of BRICKS.

    Me: And could the wolf blow it down?

    Her: NO. So the other pigs came to live with her.

    Me: Did she build them rooms of diamonds?

    Her: Yes, of course she did. Seriously, Mommy.

    Me: Excellent story, dear.

    Her: And then there is this other story about THREE MICE.

    And so it continued, all the way home.

    Over dinner, she told the story to Beloved, who also appreciated its sparkling humor. Then she sang a song.

    Her: This is not a real song.

    Me: Why not?

    Her: Because I just made it up.

    Me: That's why you need to write it down. Because as soon as you write something original down, it becomes real.

    Beloved nodded.

    Me: It's called COPYRIGHT LAW.

    Her: That is so cool!

    Me: It doesn't mean it's good, but at least it's real.

    Her: I can't believe I made up something real.

    Isn't writing great?

    Eco-Friendly Lunch & Snack Sacks

    snack-taxi.jpgToday, April shares her two favorite plastic bag alternatives: snackTAXIs and Lunch Skins. Read on for more information about these fabulously stylish and eco-friendly lunch and snack packing solutions, as well as to learn how to win a trio of snackTAXI and Lunch Skins products (entry closes at midnight, October 21):

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    From April:

    “Before I had my daughter, I didn't use many Ziploc bags. I had always been conscious of the plastic waste before parenthood. But the pacifiers that must be kept clean, the tidbits and snacks for every trip out of the house, and the sandwiches and munchies that can overrun the life of a family with a child are staggering. I simply had no clue that we would contribute such a hefty amount to the 500 billion to 1 trillion plastic bags discarded globally every year. I cringe thinking about it. I had always been so careful before, but when I had my daughter I didn't feel I had options that let me curtail our usage while still doing what we needed to get out of the house.

    When I came out of the fog after her first year, my more alert self was beyond a little horrified and we did some quick changing to more reusable containers. Thinking ahead a few years, we'll be staring daily school lunches in the face and after-school snacks on the go. Even now, our every outing requires a bag of snacks. That would be a lot of plastic if we didn't have an alternate plan. Thankfully it was easy to reign it in right away, especially since there are the wonderful reusable bag products by snackTAXI and Lunch Skins. Reusable containers are nice, but sometimes you need a bag -- something that folds flat and takes up no room when empty, something that fits the space you have available. And, as I found out, sometimes you need several kinds and sizes.

    I still use plastic bags on occasion, but not without thinking if a snackTAXI, Lunch Skin, or reusable container would work better. It's really cut back on our use of disposable bags. It may not feel like a dent in the 500 billion, but at least we're contributing to the problem less than we were, and that makes a difference. As it is, we have several of each brand, so we usually have the right combo for what we need. I save the plastic bags for when I need their benefits the most—like transporting spill-y, gooey shampoo in my luggage. The rest of the time I go for the reusable as often as possible. Even if it's not 100 percent, it's an easy improvement on a huge global problem.

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    Here are our two go-to reusable bag brands:

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    This hand sewn bag (made in nearby Plainfield, MA) has a vertical Velcro closure, so you can fasten it tighter or looser, depending on the contents. I like it for all kinds of things, but especially for Cheerios and Rice Krispies and other little foods, since I can fasten it tighter and there's no gap for the contents to rain all over the inside of my bag. The outside of the bag is 100% cotton and the inside has a polyurethane coated nylon that is free from heavy metals and pthalates and other bad things. They have plenty of different designs, so each person can pick their own lunch or snack bag for the day.

    Snack Taxis come in 6" x 4.5" (snack-sacks) and 7.5 "x 6" (sandwich-sacks).

    Lunch Skins

    lunch-skins.jpgThis stylized bag is made from a printed white fabric that feels like smooth sail cloth. The white makes it easy to see if it's really clean or not. It has a horizontal Velcro closure. You can't change how loose or tight it is, but it's a very sturdy hold with a structured shape. It's not so great for tiny items (the aforementioned Rice Krispies that are a favorite for my daughter) that might want to sneak out of the fold-over top, but most food stays put. It's ideal for sandwiches because it fits them so well, a bit better than the snackTAXI. It's a snug but easy fit, so the sandwich is held together by the shape of the bag. No more sliding ham and cheese, or half-opened PB&J.

    Best of all from Lunch Skins is their new snack size bag. It's the same size as the plastic Ziploc snack bags—a size we use often for quick trips and little munchies. This bag alone makes a major play in our lives. When you have 2 cheese sticks and a handful of crackers, you don't want to have to use a big bag. Or perhaps two chocolate chip cookies? They don't look so lonely in this small bag. These smaller bags are the perfect complement to their larger size.

    Lunch Skins come in two sizes: 6.5" x 6", 6.5" x 3.5"

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    A couple of final comments:

    First, regarding food quality, one thing that I have always hated about plastic bags is the general smoosh factor. You can have a gorgeous sandwich and in a plastic bag it's completely unprotected from its surroundings. The only thing it does is protect the surrounding from the inevitable mess. Both the snackTAXIs and Lunch Skins are slightly thicker and add a bit of armor to the food, without adding bulk or weight. The food is more intact. The cookies are less crumbled. And the sandwich? Well, it's far less demolished and dense, and therefore far tastier.

    Second, the question I get the most from other parents and babysitters is how to clean them. It's the same for both: EASY. Reusable is nice as long as it doesn't get disgusting, right? Most of the time, a rinse out at the sink with warm water will be all they need. Every now and then, they need s little scrub to get a spot of melted chocolate off. When it's really bad, like after a fully loaded PB&J has stuck to the edges a bit or chocolate chips have melted from a cookie all over it, I just rinse it once or twice and put it on the top shelf of the dishwasher, opened over the spokes like a glass. Easy breezy. I do it without even thinking about it.”

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    Congrats to winner Amy!
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    Now, want to win a trio of snackTAXI and Lunch Skins products? Here's how:

    Rules:

  • Leave a comment below about this giveaway to enter to win. Be sure to include your name and email in the appropriate fields so we can contact you if you win (including just first name or first name + last initial is OK).

  • One comment permitted per person; US entrants welcome.

  • Anonymous or SPAM-like comments will be discarded.

  • Entry period closes at midnight EST, Wednesday, October 21, 2009.

    *One lucky winner (drawn using Random.org) will receive one snackTAXI sandwich-sack + snack-sack, and one Lunch Skins snack sized sack (set gender neutral patterns; $24 value).

  • This Is How Much I Love Kristen Chase

    FTC Disclosure: I got this shirt for $0. Everything else you see in these photos is mine.

    Rita Arens Disclosure: No, I didn't dry my hair before embarking on this experiment.

    So, does everyone know that Kristen Chase of Motherhood Uncensored fame (and also contributor to an awesome book called Sleep Is for the Weak) is the Mominatrix? She writes a sex column for mommies, oh, yes she does. And she's so good, she scored a book deal.

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    Coming in 2010, bitches.

    So Kristen sent me a t-shirt and asked me to upload a photo of myself to her Mominatrix Flickr group. Sounds easy, right? How the hell do all these bloggers take photos of themselves?

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    Stolen from Amalah.

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    Stolen from Fussy.

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    And hello, Dolly, the Mominatrix herself.

    I am a FAIL. So I need you to tell me which looks least asinine to upload for Mominatrix support. They are numbered.

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    1. Wow. That's not the right way to do it.

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    2. Yep, that's not right, either.

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    3. Casual? Not so casual. Clearly staged. Also? Where to look in the mirror? This sucks.

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    4. Still can't figure out where to look.

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    5. Maybe if I stuck out my chest more? My hand is SO BIG.

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    6. Stick out chest AND SMILE?  Still, nothing.

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    7. ARRRRRGGGHHHH!!!!!!

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    8. Eh?

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    9. Or eh?